Life Isn’t So Easy!

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September, 16th


“Life isn’t about the number of breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.”

And we’re losing these moments with our actions and reactions day in and day out. With a group of angry people blowing parts and pieces of a country for their ego to be satisfied and their useless and baseless ideals to be agreed applied. With the others to sit and watch, but do nothing and for some to cry b’coz they lost someone but yet life goes on.

This is not what God had in His mind when he created this exclusive Planet and planted each one of His special children…He Planted Life on This very planet! He provided each one of us with his best & choicest Blessing… LIFE!!! No one, I bet, no one, can ever say that s/he has been forgotten by God and has been cursed by being here. Well my dears, its time you open not just your eyes but also your mind and see, it’s your very own actions that curse the blessing of the Almighty!

How well have we lived this blessing? The news of Delhi blasts has left a deep impact on our hearts and the people behind it are feeling proud of their acts. I wonder what they are actually trying to achieve with their acts. They definitely are not fighting for “Their” rights or religion, or “So Called:  Their People”. The mere reason they cannot be doing any of this is because they’re KILLING people, who are the same as they’re, people who’re born the same specie as they’re, and people who these could be related to some few years ago, or may be they were born in same family. If they’re doing this to all the people of the world just because a few of them were not treated right or hurt, how are they different from the people they’re fighting against. And if they’re the same, where is the fight?

The truth is these are just blindfolded rats who’re being controlled by the bigger rats. They think they’re fighting against the cats who in turn are also rats in a different skin. Isn’t this all so funny?

Well life’s funny!! And I’m sure, that Big Guy up there is having one hell of a laughter dose every second, watching us fight, kill, drill like rats all the time. Do you think we’re anywhere better than the animals, NO WAY!!! The biggest treasure granted to Man is being used against himself. Its like being killed by your own make.

Imagine a terrorist attacks the city and one of his fellows is killed in the same attack and is reborn in some different city where a bomb blast and the same bomb was designed by him before he died in the previous blast. That’s life!!!

So complicated but yet so simple! That’s why someone said: “Our lives are determined not by what it brings to us, but by what attitude we bring to life”

A very small but strong example I’d like to quote for the above phrase, with the following video. This is about a 12 year old girl who draws the attention of members of a UNO Conference to what they thought they were gathered for.




To Be Or Not To Be – What’s Your Life’s Strategy?

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July, 27th


Life’s full of choices, isn’t it? From the time you’re born to the time you die, you’ve so many decisions to make. But, yet they say, God controls our lives. How? He’s been asking you what you want to do on every step of life. What you choose today, will decide what you will be tomorrow. So, it is very important to take the right decision.

Where there are choices, there are confusions. Don’t you get confused, ever? C’mon, No One’s Perfect!! At least I’m not. I don’t believe in the word “Perfect”!! It’s so obvious to get confused. So, how do you make a choice?

It’s simple to tell how to take a right decision, but its difficult to make someone learn to take a decision. It’s very common with me that I get confused. Well, actually this post is also an outcome of such confusion. Since, I’m so new to blogging and with my hectic schedule; it was very difficult for me to decide what to write on. So, whenever I get confused, I make up a plan to get out of the maze. I love puzzles!

Everybody has a life’s strategy. It’s so important to have a set of rules, an algorithm, For everything. Take example of anything around you. Think if it weren’t the way it is. Very basic, something that happens with me everyday and week on! If you don’t place even a pen at its set place, you’re bound to get lost when you need it. Then, one thing leads to another, and the room becomes ONE BIG MESS!!

How we decide what’s right or wrong decides the quality of our decision and ultimately the quality of our life. Like they say, people who learn from other’s mistakes are smart. But, I say people, who make mistakes themselves, then learn how to correct them, are even better, since they would have the hands-on experience of making a wrong decision and correcting it with a right one.

All in all, what’s most important is that you need to have the courage and confidence to take a decision for yourself. The only one stopping you is YOU!!!

Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions.




Kick Started My Blogging – Chandigarh Bloggers Meet-up.

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July, 11th


So, now you know who I’m and what I’m here for. But how and why Blogging? Of course I’m gadgy and techy but not to the extent that I would sacrifice my time from friends, family, life and leisure and sit in front of my system day in - day out. I satisfy my carvings for technology at work. I live moderately, a balance of all the right things at right time. Unlike me, my hubby is much more technology starved and gadgy than me. He is a Web-developer by Passion!

Well, lately my balanced life was being upset because of my husband’s newest passion, Blogging! I was disturbed that he’s spending all of his time in office and home doing nothing other than - Blogging. He always told me about how other great bloggers have their wives help them in this. It made me wonder how would they be managing their professional, social and personal lives.

My bad! I never took time out to find what interests him so much in blogging? Well, he did his best to involve me into this new discovery. So much so, he created this site with all his heart and I had nothing to fill it up with. Not long after, I realized he’s getting away from it just for me. Was I being mean to him? Of course, that goes unsaid!! I decided to dive in with him. All for Love!! :-)

Then I heard about the Chandigarh bloggers meet-up. What is it? Bloggers’ getting together? What for? Don’t they just sit-n-write about anything and everything? So what’re they gonna do with this meet? Are they running out of ideas to write? Many more funny and stupid thoughts ran across my mind? I decided this was the time to take a leap. I had a shift that day and had not slept previous night too. It didn’t seem to matter when I saw him so happy to see me coming with him.

Well the meeting started and people came in to give their intro. The clouds were clearing and I was moving to a new Dawn. Then came a reporter from local newspaper to cover the meet, he asked what was left unsaid. How is this community gonna effect the society? Everybody gave in their reviews. I was amazed with the energy & enthusiasm I saw in every single person sitting in the room. People were so willing to and some had already started giving their bit to this world by way of blogging.

I was already swimming in pool of thoughts about my blog. I just knew what it’s gonna be and what for. As my hubby always said:

“Its All About Anything and Everything You’re Most Passionate About”.

I can’t stop myself from writing Thank You So Much, to my Darling Hubby Mohit for his unending love & support and keeping the trust in me to write.

At last, I cannot miss to mention the encouragement I got from all the Chandigarh Blogger’s:  Mr. Bakshi, Gaurav, Abhinav, Jasdeep, Abhishek, Sameer, Rajesh, Sorabh, Preeti, Sukhbir, I’m truly thankful to you all for sharing your experiences and motivating me to write.

I’m Loving It!!!